Tuesday, April 04, 2006

Friends

When I was little, I used to believe in the concept of one best
friend,

and then I started to become a woman.


And then I found out that if you allow your heart to open up,
God would show you the best in many friends.


One friend is needed when you're going through things with your man.

Another friend is needed when you're going through things with your
mom.

Another when you want to shop, share, heal, hurt, joke, or! just be


One friend will say, "Let's cry together,"
another, "Let's fight together,"
another, "Let's walk away together."


One friend will meet your spiritual need,
another your shoe fetish,
another your love for movies,
another will be with you in your season of confusion,
another will be your clarifier,
another the wind beneath your wings.


But whatever their assignment in your life,
on whatever the occasion,
on whatever the day,
or wherever you need them to meet you with their gym shoes on and
hair pulled back,
or to hold you back from making a complete fool of yourself ...
those are your best friends.


It may all be wrapped up in one woman,
but for many,
it's wrapped up in several...
one from 7th grade,
one from high school,
several from the college years,
a couple from old jobs,
on some days your mother,
on some days your neighbor,
on others, your sisters,
and on some days, your daughters.



So whether you've been my friend for 20 minutes or 20 years,

I'm so thankful that God has placed you in my life. You make a
difference. God bless, Char

2 comments:

Dawn and Dale said...

Oh my word!!!!

You brought tears to my eyes...that was so beautifully/perfectly written!!

I love you so much and I am so thankful for our friendship! Things do change but I know what we have is forever.

God bless,

Dawn

Dawn and Dale said...

ok lady...you have a good excuse right now for not blogging...but once you get your new computer...you better get at it again!!

Love you!

Dawn